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	<title>Comments on: Bright shiny things</title>
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		<title>By: Jerry Smith</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jerry Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Feb 2008 14:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Shawn, I agree with you and that is an insightful comment. Making to do lists can be very useful and many people use BSTs as &quot;rewards&quot; for completing the chores!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;We just need to be aware when a shiny thing comes up that we recognize it and then decide what we are going to do with it!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Shawn, I agree with you and that is an insightful comment. Making to do lists can be very useful and many people use BSTs as &#8220;rewards&#8221; for completing the chores!</p>
<p>We just need to be aware when a shiny thing comes up that we recognize it and then decide what we are going to do with it!</p>
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		<title>By: Shawn Kinkade - Aspire</title>
		<link>http://accordcoaching.wordpress.com/2008/02/11/bright-shiny-things/#comment-16</link>
		<dc:creator>Shawn Kinkade - Aspire</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Feb 2008 04:37:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jerry (and Toby),&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Another way to approach this is to keep track of key things you have to do and make sure you do those first.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Then if you get sidetracked by all the cool fun stuff that&#039;s out there, you&#039;re still on track and maybe you found a new BST!&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;My $0.02&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Shawn</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jerry (and Toby),</p>
<p>Another way to approach this is to keep track of key things you have to do and make sure you do those first.</p>
<p>Then if you get sidetracked by all the cool fun stuff that&#8217;s out there, you&#8217;re still on track and maybe you found a new BST!</p>
<p>My $0.02</p>
<p>Shawn</p>
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		<title>By: Tobin Truog</title>
		<link>http://accordcoaching.wordpress.com/2008/02/11/bright-shiny-things/#comment-15</link>
		<dc:creator>Tobin Truog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 12 Feb 2008 03:47:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jerry, &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Hey - how come you dropped my shameless plug!?!?!?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jerry, </p>
<p>Hey &#8211; how come you dropped my shameless plug!?!?!?</p>
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		<title>By: Jerry Smith</title>
		<link>http://accordcoaching.wordpress.com/2008/02/11/bright-shiny-things/#comment-14</link>
		<dc:creator>Jerry Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 18:27:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Toby&lt;br/&gt;thanks for your reply and I realize I was less than clear! &lt;br/&gt;I am not suggesting that any approach needs to be &quot;slow and steady&quot; - on the contrary. I&#039;ll return to this in a minute.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I agree - chasing Bright shiny things (BSTs) is a compulsion. It is only really a problem if it distracts us from what we really want simply because it is a novelty. Of course there is merit in looking into new things, I am merely suggesting that we approach that in terms of &quot;how is this helping me?&quot; It may be that by looking at a new BST you are, indeed, staying on top of the latest stuff. If so, and that is working for you, great. Again, is that getting you where you want to go? I can&#039;t answer that but I suggest it is useful to define what that destination is - i.e a plan.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Again, not suggesting you stop looking at these things, it can be fun but do you want to do that at the expense of acheiving something else. For example, how long do we suf the net instead of doing something else? &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Planning doesn&#039;t need to be slow and steady. A plan that states the goal and has actions to acheive it is often a spur to rapid action. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;I agree - having a plan isn&#039;t always sexy. In emotion terms though I might ask: &quot;Are you frustrated that you spend your day busy, but not seeming to achieve anything? Are you confused as to what you are trying to do in ......?&quot;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Thanks for your comments - they made me think more than I did when writing that post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Toby<br />thanks for your reply and I realize I was less than clear! <br />I am not suggesting that any approach needs to be &#8220;slow and steady&#8221; &#8211; on the contrary. I&#8217;ll return to this in a minute.</p>
<p>I agree &#8211; chasing Bright shiny things (BSTs) is a compulsion. It is only really a problem if it distracts us from what we really want simply because it is a novelty. Of course there is merit in looking into new things, I am merely suggesting that we approach that in terms of &#8220;how is this helping me?&#8221; It may be that by looking at a new BST you are, indeed, staying on top of the latest stuff. If so, and that is working for you, great. Again, is that getting you where you want to go? I can&#8217;t answer that but I suggest it is useful to define what that destination is &#8211; i.e a plan.</p>
<p>Again, not suggesting you stop looking at these things, it can be fun but do you want to do that at the expense of acheiving something else. For example, how long do we suf the net instead of doing something else? </p>
<p>Planning doesn&#8217;t need to be slow and steady. A plan that states the goal and has actions to acheive it is often a spur to rapid action. </p>
<p>I agree &#8211; having a plan isn&#8217;t always sexy. In emotion terms though I might ask: &#8220;Are you frustrated that you spend your day busy, but not seeming to achieve anything? Are you confused as to what you are trying to do in &#8230;&#8230;?&#8221;</p>
<p>Thanks for your comments &#8211; they made me think more than I did when writing that post!</p>
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		<title>By: Tobin Truog</title>
		<link>http://accordcoaching.wordpress.com/2008/02/11/bright-shiny-things/#comment-13</link>
		<dc:creator>Tobin Truog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Feb 2008 16:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Jerry!&lt;br/&gt;I love the idea of the bright shiny thing...but here are two ways that your &quot;slow and steady&quot; approach falls down.&lt;br/&gt;1)You are assuming that the &quot;chaser&quot; knows they are chasing. They may look at their behavior as a bonus, &quot;they are staying on top of the latest stuff.&quot; In which case, telling them to stop is going to feel like you are telling them to stop trying.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;and 2) You assume that even if your subject realizes it, the chaser will be able to stop. Chasing the shiny thing is a compulsion.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;so...how would you connect with something more powerful and emotional than &quot;you must have a plan&quot;?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jerry!<br />I love the idea of the bright shiny thing&#8230;but here are two ways that your &#8220;slow and steady&#8221; approach falls down.<br />1)You are assuming that the &#8220;chaser&#8221; knows they are chasing. They may look at their behavior as a bonus, &#8220;they are staying on top of the latest stuff.&#8221; In which case, telling them to stop is going to feel like you are telling them to stop trying.</p>
<p>and 2) You assume that even if your subject realizes it, the chaser will be able to stop. Chasing the shiny thing is a compulsion.</p>
<p>so&#8230;how would you connect with something more powerful and emotional than &#8220;you must have a plan&#8221;?</p>
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