Do you consider yourself lucky?
When you look at success you have had, or are having, do you think of it as lucky? Were you in the right place at the right time? What do you really believe about luck, rather than what you say out of modesty when someone compliments you?
I say this because, as with many things, thinking about luck can be a two edged sword. Let me explain my thinking:
- You think of yourself as a lucky person. You approach situations thinking that you will have good luck and it always seems to happen. This is a positive thing
- If you look back on success and consider that it was just lucky, you are actually minimizing your contribution and setting yourself up to expect a different result next time. Not so positive
- “I am unlucky” – the reverse of the first feeling. You expect the worst, eliminate the good that happens and focus on the bad. Guess what? You make the bad happen
When we get into the negative we tend to filter things accordingly. Use the concept of luck positively – remember what Gary Player the famous golfer sais about luck: “The more I practice, the luckier I get” You can affect luck by the amount you work at something, and thinking of the lucky things that have happened to you can help you have a more positive attitude generally.